Love Capacity: The Scores Are In! – Article III

Steven James Dixon May 23, 2012 Comments

For Love Capacity Data Analysis Article II Click Here!

For the Love Capacity Score Definitions Click Here!

 

Since April 15th I have collected 700 Love Capacity Quizzes form men.

The average Score for Men: 5 (4.84)

Love Capacity Score of 5 = Under Construction

Sometimes your relationships move too fast. Sometimes your relationships move too slow. Sometimes it’s them. Sometimes it’s you. I want the people who score a Love Capacity of 5 to do a better job of defining beforehand what they want out of a partner and a relationship. If you don’t know what you want, don’t date. If you know what you want, don’t change what you want based on the person that you are dating.

The average Score for Men that are Married: 5 (4.88)

The average Score for Men that are Divorced: 5 (4.85)

The average Score for Men that are Single, Never Married: 5 (4.82)

The average Score for Men that are Widowed: 5 (4.57)

The average Score for Men that earn less than $55,000: 5 (4.87)

The average Score for Men that earn more than $55,000: 5 (4.85)

The average Score for Men in the age group 25-34: 5 (4.88)

The average Score for Men in the age group 35-44: 5 (4.80)

 

Since April 15th I have collected 3,700 Love Capacity Quizzes form Women.

The average Score for Women: 5 (4.76)

Love Capacity Score of 5 = Under Construction

Sometimes your relationships move too fast. Sometimes your relationships move too slow. Sometimes it’s them. Sometimes it’s you. I want the people who score a Love Capacity of 5 to do a better job of defining beforehand what they want out of a partner and a relationship. If you don’t know what you want, don’t date. If you know what you want, don’t change what you want based on the person that you are dating.

The average Score for Women that are Married: 5 (4.74)

The average Score for Women that are Divorced: 5 (4.75)

The average Score for Women that are Single, Never Married: 5 (4.82)

The average Score for Women that are Widowed: 5 (4.73)

The average Score for Women that earn less than $55,000: 5 (4.78)

The average Score for Women that earn more than $55,000: 5 (4.74)

The average Score for Women in the age group 25-34: 5 (4.73)

The average Score for Women in the age group 35-44: 5 (4.76)

 

There is virtually no difference in Love Capacity for any particular group. Male or female. Married or Divorced. Financially well off or low income. Ok so there is no difference in average scores for the different groups but is it not odd that no group scored higher than a “5”?  Interesting right? I bet that women and me are scoring the same for different reasons.

Why is the average score for a Man “5” – I will have to dig deeper into the data to provide a thorough answer to that question. My assumption is that Man is exactly where I thought they would be  . . .  but lower. (LOL! – Not funny though!) I want the average man to score a “7” on my Love Capacity Quiz. Man only scored a “5”. But you have to understand, I have a greater expectation of Man than Man has for himself. I would like for Man to score a “7” but I am not surprised by the “5”.

Why is the average score for a Woman “5 – I have to admit, I was surprised by this score. I thought that women would score a lot higher. My assumption is that the scores of Women are lower than expected because they are not healing from relationship disappointment. Women are having a tough time letting go and moving on and are a lot tougher on themselves when the relationship fails.

The Love Capacity Quiz is difficult. My belief system, core values and principles about dating, love, relationships and marriage are a lot higher than the average person. My belief system, core values and principles were derived from my experiences, observations and the counseling sessions that I have had with the hundreds of couples I have worked with over the past three years. With the book “Love Capacity ” I fully expect to change the way that we date and relate. I expect to increase our capacity to love one another and I expect to save the Institution of Marriage.

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