The Relationship Report – “5th Anniversary – No Sex For Single Women Day: First Tuesday in September”

Steven James Dixon September 5, 2011 0

The first Monday in September is Labor Day. Labor = Work. No Sex For Single Women Day is the first Tuesday in September because that Monday, Labor Day, should serve as a reminder to single women that their sex should be worked for. In 2011 hundreds of women vowed to stop giving up their sex for free. In 2012 we picked up some momentum and even more women agreed to the challenge. Then 2013, 2014, 2015 and now in 2016 the 5th Anniversary of “No Sex For Single Women Day” we need hundreds of thousands of women to increase their standards for providing no strings attached sex.

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This article is not controversial, it is the truth. Controversy is when the issue at hand is debatable. Truth is when someone (Me) informs you as to how to resolve the issue and you don’t like what I have to say.  ISSUE: Women are ruining the world by giving men sex for free. SOLUTION: Women stop giving men sex for free and save the world. ALTERNATIVE SOLUTIONS: None.

I have great relationships with many of the major magazines. I emailed them all an advance copy of this article before I published it on All of the magazines that I submitted this article to passed. The magazines had a common rejection reason. “Steven this article infringes upon the sexual freedoms of women.” I would respond to that reasoning with “How is the woman’s right to have sex with anybody at any time working out for them? Is the marriage age for women decreasing? Is the number of women getting married increasing? Are the number of children being born out of wedlock (73%) decreasing? Are more men cheating? Who do you think they are cheating with? Who is more susceptible to catching a sexually transmitted disease? Men or women? Who is more likely to get pregnant? Men or women?” Here is the link to the press conference where the official announcement was made about “No Sex For Single Women.”

Every day I get email messages like this from Wives:

  • My husband wants to have an open relationship. Should I do it?
  • My husband cheated and said that I need to accept the fact that men cheat. Should I accept it?
  • I had a threesome with my husband and he is still not satisfied. What should I do now?

Or I get email messages like this from Husbands:

  • My wife doesn’t want to have sex with me.
  • I can’t remember the last time that we had sex.
  • Now that we are married, my wife rations out sex. I use to get as much as I wanted when we were dating.

The world is confused sexually. Too many men are cheating. Let me say that again but differently. Too many men are cheating. I try to challenge men who are cheating and you know what they say to me: “But it is so easy to get free sex from single women these days.” Should men cheat: No. Are men cheating: Yes. Do they know that it is wrong: Yes. Do they care: Sometimes. Who are they cheating with: Your Mother, Your Daughter, Your Sister, Your Aunt, Your Niece, Your Homeboy, Your Friends, men are not sleeping with your enemies. We wouldn’t do that. We have some couth. Too many men are cheating and they are cheating with women who know that they are married. Tiger Woods cheated with 20,000 women. All of those women knew that he was married. Too often women tell me that they had no idea that the man that they were having sex with was married. To that I say he was paying for sex with someone else and you were giving him sex for free. You had sex with him way too soon if you did not know he was married.

Definition of a Single Woman: Unmarried, Unattached, Not in a committed relationship, No title, Not girlfriend, Not woman nor wifey = NO SEX FOR YOU! I’m sorry. I really am. Take one for the team. (←That is a figurative statement. I should probably just take that statement out.)

Here is a theory: Single women are getting sexed out. By the time that they get married, they are not as interested in sex anymore. But guess who is still horny as hell? Your single friends. Especially the ones that are sleeping with your husband.

This article is not merely about single women not having sex, it is also about single women saving their sex for their husbands. Single men should not be having more sex than husbands. I don’t care about the kids, the house, the laundry or cooking. Take care of your husband first and then he will help you handle the household. The average husband should be getting more sex than the average single man. The husband put a ring on it. Single men run through multiple single women getting all of the sex that they want for free. Then suddenly because of some papers and a circular metal object society has the expectation that the verity experienced by the husband when he was single doesn’t negatively impact marriage? Y’all think love changes a man’s appetite for sex?  In the book “Men Don’t Heal, We Ho” on Page 158 the author writes “If you can’t have sex with your husband twice a week you really don’t deserve a faithful husband. You should be banned from getting married. Wives should have to sign something stating that they understand sex twice a week is mandatory. We are talking about the bare minimum here, folks. Twice a week is baseline. That’s easy. Even the bad hus­bands should get sex twice a week.” No Sex For Single Women Day is not for one day. It is for all days going forward. It started on September 6, 2011 and now September 6, 2016 is upon us. What have we learned? I am requesting that single women help me save marriages by stopping the giveth away of sex for free! Here’s why:

Once upon a time I was at a gathering at a friend’s house. 10 men, 8 married, 2 single. At midnight, all of the married men said, “Man it’s getting late, I probably won’t get none tonight.” The single men said, “I am going to send a text out to a couple of chicks. Whoever responds first, she can get it tonight.” Both men received multiple invitations. (I was and am happily married but I getz it from the wife like I am single!!! #AnotherArticleThatIHopeMyWifeDoesn’tRead)

Single woman, you probably still don’t understand. You probably are thinking that you are not the problem because you only give him some one day a week. You have to account for the other six days in the week where he is getting it somewhere else. You are, yes you, YOU ARE APART OF THE PROBLEM.

Send that husband back home to his wife. Send that boyfriend back to his girlfriend. Put your Ex back on the streets. Again, I am sorry that I have to put this weight on single women but it is the only way. You can save the world by closing your legs. As long as men have someone to cheat with it is very difficult for me to save marriages. Is it an excuse? Call it what you want but this is the truth about the current state of relationships. Is there another way to save marriages? Maybe but until someone passes on that solution to me the first Tuesday in September is No Sex For Single Women Day.

No Sex For Single Women Day: First Tuesday in September

NOTE: Any man that is upset with me for writing this article has no control over his team of women.  When I was single, I did not allow any of the women to read this type of trash! #KeepEmUneducated

DISCLAIMER: I asked single men to stop having sex. They said “NO”.


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